First Wednesday.
In German. Evening, Lisbon time. Camera on. The first circle is free.
Circles
Every month, the same circle.
A small group of men, online or in person, talking about their own lives. No one tries to fix anyone. Advice is cheap. Being there and listening is what helps.
Next online circle: Wednesday 2 December, 20:00 German time.
Book a callAfter the circle: The RootsOnline
From wherever you are.
A live evening circle, camera on, in German. First Wednesday of the month, 8 pm in Germany and 7 pm in Lisbon. You talk about yourself. What's said stays in the circle. You don't need any jargon. You need the courage to speak honestly and then stay. Your first evening is free.
In person
Western Algarve.
On the third Wednesday we meet at Monte Rosa, near Lagos. I'll send you the exact meeting point after you sign up. So far it's been €21 in person, and €15 if you only join online. I'll confirm that before you commit. I won't make up a circle in another city. If you're looking for one, ask me.
€21 · €15
Sign up
Sign up for the next three months.
Tick the evenings you can make. Every sign-up comes straight to me. Beforehand I'll send you the link, or the address in the western Algarve.
Third Wednesday.
In person, western Algarve. I send the exact place after you sign up.
Agreements
Presence
Arrive and stay. Phones stay outside.
Honesty
Speak about yourself. Don't show off clever insights.
Confidentiality
What is said stays in the circle.
Responsibility
No one lives your life for you.
Brothers
What the men say.
Voices from the circles. Not marketing copy.
“After two years of steady work and honest support from everyone, I no longer feel alone. I truly know I'm not alone. Thanks to this brotherhood, I'm enjoying life as a single man for the first time. Thank you for being my brothers and fathers. I had no idea how much I needed you.”
“I arrived as a boy in a man's body and learned so much about what it means to be an embodied and HEALTHY man. For myself, my family and my community. This work makes sense, and you can feel the results.”
“Through this work I know more clearly what I need to do to become the best version of myself.”
“A place where I found people with the same values, who challenged me to meet the patterns I had carried for years, to reconnect with who I really am, and to become the man, and the father, I know I am meant to be.”
“Since I started this men's work, I understand myself, my needs and my feelings for the first time, really. It doesn't stop, and it's part of my everyday life now.”
“Finally brothers who understand the pressure of responsibility and money stress. That changed everything for me.”
“The real conversations about sexuality and meaning helped me become the man I want to be.”
“Working with Alex and the Intensives gave me huge clarity in my relationship with my partner. I was able to tear down the emotional wall I'd built between us so I wouldn't get hurt, and let real love in. And that was just one part of it. I'd recommend it to any man who is truly open to change.”
Tell me where you are.
I'll tell you about the next live circle, online or in person, if it's honestly right for you. If you'd rather talk first, book the call.
Instagram @alex_wirthlQuestions
What men actually ask.
- What really happens in a circle?
- Men sit together and talk about themselves. People listen. Advice only comes if someone asks for it. It's not a lecture and it's not therapy.
- Online or in person, which should I choose?
- If you're not in the Algarve, go for the first Wednesday online. If you can come, the third Wednesday at Monte Rosa is the in-person circle.
- Does it stay confidential?
- Yes. What's said in the circle stays in the circle. That goes for me and for every man sitting there.
- When do the circles meet?
- Online on the first Wednesday, 8 pm German time, 7 pm Lisbon. In person on the third Wednesday in the western Algarve.
- How do I get a place?
- Tick the evenings you can make. Your first online evening is free. After that I'll send you the link or the address.
Book a call if you'd like to check first whether it's a fit.
You don't have to call before joining a circle. If you're unsure, we talk for half an hour. No sales pitch.
Book a call